Determining whether someone who was initially attracted to you for whatever reason--because you've spent the last three years in the gym doing crunches, or because you're Ronald Perelman--is sincerely in love with you for who you are requires emotional insight, the advice of trusted friends and a good pre-nup lawyer.
But I would still love to see a top-down action-RPG that requires something more in terms of combat strategy, that requires more than click-and-loot to progress.