We get what we focus on: If you believe that you are a loser your mind will filter all memories that prove otherwise and stick to ones that prove that you are a loser.

我们关注什么就会得到什么：如果你认为你是一个失败者，那么你的心理就会过滤所有记忆，筛选出以来能坚持证明你是失败者的记忆。

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Male wolves, for example, may have a bloody fight to decide who will lead the pack. But the loser just lies down on his back and surrenders. The loser is not killed.

比如，公狼可能要靠一场惨烈的打斗来决定谁是领头，可失败的狼也只是躺倒投降。

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The real loser is never the person who crosses the finishing line last. The real loser is the person who sits on the side. The person who does not even try to compete.

真正的输家从来不是最后跨越终点线的那个人，真正的输家是坐在旁边，那个连比赛都不愿意尝试的人。

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Instead of Cloud Atlas, the second-biggest turkey on our list is A Thousand Words, the latest money-loser from Eddie Murphy.

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She conducts seminars advising employers on holding "smartest-loser" competitions instead, rewarding employees who achieve the slowest, steadiest weight loss.

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In the early 17th century, transatlantic exploration was still very much a risky proposition, and for the Dutch West Indies corporation to bet on a two-time loser such as Henry Hudson required someone with sufficient influence within the organization to support this project this was van Meteren.

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