Dummling begged so long that at last he said: "Just go then, you will get wiser by hurting yourself."

小傻瓜苦苦哀求了很久，最后他只好说：“去吧，伤到自己以后，你会变聪明点的。”

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Just go on the way and adjust yourself by a little relaxing or rewarding yourself by any food and drink you like.

只要坚持下去，偶尔地可以放松一下，或小小地犒劳自己一点任何自己钟爱的食品。

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If it's a negative thought, just immediately neutralize it by saying to yourself, Could I let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than what I think it is?

如果消极想法出现了，就马上通过与自己对话撤销它吧！ 问自己，我能够把这种自以为是的情结放下、让事情自己去发生而不是按我所想的发生吗？

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Unfortunately, this will never go back to just gifting each other with homemade cookies, but you can give yourself some financial relief by giving the same gift you gave last year.

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