This makes him feel incompetent and a failure or that she is probably blaming him for her problems.

这样一来，男人会产生无能和挫败感，他觉得女人很可能把问题归咎于他。

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So it might be incompetent at being a 1st line manager, but he proposed that perhaps I could manage a larger group.

所以我可能不能做第一线的管理者，但是他指出我可以管理一个,更大的团队。

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The man was a fool, he thought, or at least incompetent.

他想，那人是个傻子，或者至少是无能。

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But to make it seem as though she was universally hated or incompetent is a gross mischaracterization.

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Instead, he was greeted by Ben Hope and Jason Richards wearing balaclavas who stabbed him to death in a incompetent contract killing.

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