So I thought I'd enlighten you a little bit on that, and also give you some things to think about in your own relationship.

我想这些对你肯定会有所启示，你也可以好好想想你的两性关系。

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Now, I really could not bear the present things in mind and even the early years’ events I could think of also are very little.

我确实是有点不记眼前事了，可早年事也没想起多少。

youdao

We are doing a lot of things, you may have a lack of intention, carefully. But I read a little story I am also very important to concentrate on.

我们在做很多事时，可能都缺少用心、细心。但是我读了这样一个小故事使我感到专心致志也是非常重要的。

youdao

What this entails is just trying to stop controlling things, but I also mistake it a little bit because by stopping controlling things, you're going to control it more.

必须的是,试着放手不去控制事物，但这也是个悖论,因为想不控制事物，反而会加强控制。

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It's been unbelievable, but I have also been a little bit lucky with things being on my side.

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