You know how many hoops I had to jump through just to be able to offer you this job?

你知道为了给你争取到这份工作我费了多大劲？

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Your daughter needs reassurance that her value lies in who she is, not how many hoops she jumps through for the people she wants to please.

你的孩子需要确信，她的价值是基于她是谁，而不是她为了那些她想取悦的人做了多少事。

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Rather than killing ourselves deciding how many legal filters and hoops to create for bankers to jump through, maybe all we need to do is make sure a lot more women have a say in what operations are approved and why.

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