Although the studies only looked at the people expressing gratitude, Lambert speculated that, "those who are being thanked will often feel an urge to reciprocate."
尽管这些研究只分析了那些表达感激的人,但兰伯特分析称,“那些受到感谢的人通常会产生回报的想法。”
You may feel the urge to get up and make an excuse to do something else. That’s normal.
这很正常,冲破这个阻力(译者:可以在不去做其它事情的基础上休息几分钟的),这种感觉就慢慢消失了。
We have an urge to give advice immediately to make the person feel better or try to fix the problem.
我们会有一个冲动去立即给出建议来让那个人感觉好受,或,立即努力要去解决问题。
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