You go home and tell Lily about this problem you have now. She is your wife and I am sure she will understand.

你回家告诉Lily关于你现在所面对的这个问题，她是你的妻子，她会理解的。

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She, now your wife, is not a "dog person"-still I welcomed her into our home, tried to show her affection, and obeyed her.

她--也就是你现在的妻子， 并不是一个“爱狗之人”，但我还是欢迎她来到我们家，还努力向她表达我的友好，并听她的话。

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Now you may be thinking, this is your wife, of course she should help you.

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