And if people derive self-esteem from the very behaviors that we are warning against, ironically, our warnings may promote these behaviors.
讽刺的是,如果人们获得自尊是来自恰是我们正在警告的某些行为,我们的警告可能会助长这种行为。
Mild depression, self-pity and negative expressions or outbursts are all warning signs of a nurturer who is on the verge of collapse—and maybe in need of nurturing herself.
轻度抑郁症、自怜、否定表达或情感爆发都预示着培育者正处于崩溃的边缘,或许她们需要哺育一下自己。
Warning people of the deadly nature of certain behaviors may increase the need for self-esteem because self-esteem helps solve the psychological problem of death.
警告人们某些致命性的行为是为了提高自尊,因为自尊有助于克服死亡的心理问题。
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