Su: It is indeed not fair, I mean you love that person is unfair.

苏：的确不公平，我是说你对所爱的那个人不公平。

youdao

You understand, one conceives an affection for a person; I am a good sort of a beast, I am; I do not reason; I love that little girl; my wife is quick-tempered, but she loves her also.

您懂吗，彼此有了感情，我是一个烂好人，我；道理我说不清，我爱她，这孩子；我女人性子躁，可是她也爱她。

youdao

That simply translates into "I'm able to love me when I love that other person."

这句话也可以简单地说成：“在我爱那个人的同时，我也能爱我自己。”

youdao

The competent person who blunders, this is the person that I love.

有能力的人，偶尔出丑，大爱啊。

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And these aren't necessarily so incompatible but the evolutionary perspective I think would argue that you can feel that kind of love for more than one person or at least it would facilitate the passing on of your genetic material to a larger array of the next generation.

两种观点不太相容,但是持进化论观点的人认为,你可以和两个以上的人拥有完美式的爱情,至少会促进,你的基因传给更多下一代的人。

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