Not only do you first need to ACTUALLY meet a woman, approach her, date her for awhile, before you even talk commitment, there is also another issue that arises.

至少你得首先真的认识了一位小姐，接近她，和她交往一段时间，在你给她任何承诺之前，还有另外一个问题。

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In short, you need to learn how to make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you when you first meet her.

简而言之，你需要学会在第一次见面里，让她觉得你有吸引力。

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You're working for others, and you need to meet their expectations first.

因为你是在为他人工作，所以得先达到别人的期望。

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