From which I think it follows that the mere fact that I've smuggled myself in as an observer doesn't mean that I don't really believe in the possibility that I'm observing in my mind's eye.
So for me, if I'm a small business employer, and you've come into me, you shook my hand, looked me intheeye and said I will do this job for X, and then you come back the next day and complain about it, why would I ever want to work with you again?