Physical features do matter to women but for a woman a man's level of self confidence is more important then his looks.

女人看重男人的外表但是相比外表而言，更看重他的自信心。

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The reason that many nice people get taken advantage of is because they have a low level of self confidence and people smell that right away.

之所以那么多心地温和的人被别人利用，是因为他们缺乏自信，而恰恰被别人抓住了这个弱点。

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However, when I was fully engaged in the conversation I got a positive response from the women I approached. They can easily smell your level of self confidence!

而当我放开心胸完全参与到对话中时，我从这些妇女身上得到了非常好的反馈，她们愿意为你的自信报以微笑。

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When women and men are secure in themselves, believe in their skills, and have a high level of self-confidence and self-awareness, they will generally not behave the way you described.

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What results from that level of self-confidence is rarely pretty.

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That level of confidence, we call it genuine self-esteem -- the kind that doesn't fluctuate.

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