You have to sweet spot that I love is that people ah you like to say.

你要甜蜜点地说我就是那个爱你的人呀之类的话。

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When people talk about the sweet USES of adversity, I think they unduly stress a grim and kind of hopeless resignation, a conviction that, like unpleasant medicine, it's somehow "good for us."

我认为，人们在谈论逆境的益处时，过度强调了一种冷酷与绝望的顺从，一种良药苦口般的信仰——逆境或多或少都有益于我们。

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