It is not just for the other person that you forgive, but for yourself, so you don't waste your life angry with someone or continue to hold a grudge.

这不仅仅是对于某个人的宽恕，而是宽恕你自己，所以你不必浪费生命生某人的气，或者一直对某人耿耿于怀。

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For example, you may see a happy face, or you may even see something like a sunflower or rainbow if you're being told "happy," or a storm cloud or the color red if the person is angry.

比方说，如果听到“高兴”这个词，你可能会看到一张高兴的脸，甚至是太阳花或者彩虹这种东西；而如果这个人很生气，可能会看到乌云或者红颜色。

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For example telling yourself over and over again that you are an extremely calm person may change your personality from being that of an angry person to that of a controlled and calm person.

例如告诉你一遍又一遍，你是一个非常冷静的人可能会改变你的个性得到了一个愤怒的人是一个控制和平静的人。

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They promise to pass on to the merch buyers clothing advice, they are thanking people for the advice, and, in one case of a particularly detailed and angry post, JCP offered the person to IM them to discuss further.

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