Either you can talk to him, or I will.

要么你和他谈，要么我来。

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That meant you were either with him or against him.

这就意味着你与他非敌即友。

youdao

Or, to put it another way: We found him, he's ours, you can't have him. Sorry, GM (and no, you can't have Apple Chief Operating Officer Tim Cook, either), go away.

或者说，我们找到他了，但他是属于我们的，通用，很对不起，我们不能把他让给你，(不行，苹果的首席营运官蒂姆·库克也不行)，走开！

youdao

"And the relation with Israel within two years allowed Turkey to tell the Syrians you either kick him out or we will come in there to pick him up and it worked."

VOA: standard.2009.10.27

"He has a Marmite effect, you either love him or you hate him, " says Dr Oliver Double, who lectures in stand-up comedy at Kent University and is a former circuit comedian.

BBC: Russell Brand

The Irish-based trainer of Epsom Derby hope New Approach and Oaks prospect Lush Lashes is the "Marmite man" of his profession - you either love or hate him.

BBC: Cornelius Lysaght column

No, now you're either signing your child up for myriad organized activities, or you've somehow allowed him to fall behind.

CNN: Parents, why are you pushing your kids?