Unbelief makes you want to control your own life, and unbelief will stop God from blessing you.

不信会使你要作自己的主人，不信会令到神停止祝福你。

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Learn to be in control of your own life instead of comparing with others all the time.

学会控制自己的生活，而不是总是和别人比较。

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If you keep blaming people you'll soon learn that you let them control you, and when you realize this you'll start taking responsibility for your own life and work towards your own success.

如果你老是抱怨别人，你很快会发现你的生活会被外界和他人完全掌控，你必须明白这一点，才能真正负起自己生活的责任，开始踏上你自己的成功路程。

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In your own life, where do you see evidence of using money to gain control of something?

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