Whenever you're in conflict with someone, there is one factor that can make the difference between damaging your relationship and deepening it. That factor is attitude.
当你与某人发生冲突时,你们的关系是破裂还是更加紧密取决于一个因素:态度。
If it turns out that some of the changes conflict with one another, the merge is considered nontrivial, because someone must make decisions about which of the conflicting changes should prevail.
如果出现某些变化同另外一个变化相冲突的情况,那么合并就被认为是重要的,这是由于某个人必须决定哪一个冲突的变化应当获胜。
Looking back, I know those emotions came from a fear of what was wrong with me, plus the eternal conflict of adolescence: someone else deciding what's best for you.
现在回想起来,我知道这些情绪都源自于对自身问题的恐惧,以及青春期特有的抵触:凭什么要别人决定什么对我才是最好的。
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