When we feel offended by someone, we can tell him to his face instead of complaining behind his back.

如果你觉得被冒犯了，可以当面告诉对方，而不是在他背后抱怨。

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Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life.

每次有人来我这里向我抱怨，我可以完完全全的接受他们的怨言，也可以帮助他们指出问题积极的一面，我选择了后者。

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Every time someone comes to me complaining，I can choose to accept their complaining or point out the positive side of life.

每有什么人找我来抱怨，我可以选择接受他们的抱怨，也可以选择向他们指出生活的积极面。

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"If I had someone's name and they came to me complaining, I'd probably give it to them, " he said.

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And, in the days that followed, someone would write an angry letter to the editor complaining that these people weren't melting into the pot.

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