We are carried if we want to be, in hugging arms, but we can pull ourselves up, reach things, and creep away from where we’re put: every day more confident, stronger, keener-eyed.

如果想要的话，可以让怀抱的手臂托着我们，但我们也可以自己出力，伸手够触，一旦放下就会爬开。 每天我们都变得更自信，更强壮，更敏锐。

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But being away from home and our routines can mean it's more difficult to look after ourselves.

但是，远离家乡和打破常规的生活习惯也意味着照顾好自己变得没那么容易了。

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But surprise feedback - criticism that seems to come from nowhere, about an issue we haven't perceived ourselves - is the hardest. We're far more likely to be defensive.

但是出其不意的反馈- - -似乎不知从哪儿来的批评，而且是我们自己一直未能察觉到的事情- - -是最难接受的，远远超过了我们能够抵御的范围。

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"But we also have to demand more from ourselves, " he said.

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But as we age ourselves and as our parents need more help from us, we have to get better informed.

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We expect more not only from our technology, but from each other and from ourselves.

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