To argue well, i. e. when the sparks are done flying you can actually talk, means you must respect each other and the relationship enough to fight for it.

要想很好地争吵，比如说，当气氛缓和时你可以真正说话，这意味着你必须要彼此尊重，来为之奋斗。

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We can argue about whether the ends justify the means (i. e. deficit spending) but the public can grasp the need for such a mechanism.

我们可以就是否应该只问目的不问手段(也就是说赤字开支)进行争论，但公众能够理解采取这类措施的必要性。

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Today's consumers use the Internet in their own particular way for e-mail, web-surfing and so on, but, the bulls argue, tomorrow's will think of it more as a form of interactive television, with many people watching the same material.

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