规则是，在场上的人可以拒绝回答任何一个问题，但是以其设计来看，每个人都要求去问那些很难的，甚至是让人不舒服的问题。

The rule is that the person onstage can refuse to answer any question. By its design, people are encouraged to ask difficult and uncomfortable questions.

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孩子们不再觉得和父母共同解决问题让他们不舒服，这就减少了某些同龄人对孩子们的不良影响。

Children feel comfortable sharing their problems with parents, reducing the risk of peers having an undue influence on their lives.

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我发现，避免谈话中被问到让人不舒服问题的最有效的方法之一就是你先问问题。

I have found that one of the most effective ways to avoid uncomfortable questions within communication is to ask questions of whoever you are speaking with.

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