首先，亚里士多德由柏拉图的厄洛斯，衍生出了菲利亚一词，他对爱情进行了重新定义，将其定义为更取决于理性而非激情的东西。

So first of all, Aristotle derived the term philia from Plato's eros, and he redefined love as something that is more dependent on reason than on passion.

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整日沐浴在温暖南方的艳阳之中，他的童年经历更倾向自力更生式的少年马克·吐温，而非一直活在敏感之中的小田纳西·威廉姆斯（Tennessee Williams），生活充满了动力，才智、爱情、骄傲和希望等种种元素无一不缺。

It is a sunlit story of the warm south: Mark Twain rather than Tennessee Williams, complete with drive, wit, love, pride, hope and so on.

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真正的爱情是给予，而非索取。

True love is giving not taking.

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Dante and Milton had mythologies, Shakespeare the characters of English history, of traditional romance is more type than man, more passion than type.

但丁，弥尔顿，莎士比亚写神话,英国历史，古典爱情的人物,是激情而非类型。

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