教导男人成为男人的方法是要我们知道我们不是女人，这是问题的关键。

Men were taught to be men in the ways in which we are not women, that's essentially what it is.

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我们正在尝试改变男人，而不是我们教育男人的方法…这有两个原因：首先我们不知道如何让男孩变成男人，其次我们并不肯定我们真的愿意这样去做。

Rather than changing the way we do male education, we try to change males... There are two simple reasons: we don't know how to initiate boys into men; and second, we're not sure we really want to.

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