假如我讲述了她死亡的故事，我可能更加熟悉它，理解它——甚至可能改变它，这一直让我无法置信的事实。

If I told the story of her death, I might understand it better, make sense of it-perhaps even change it. What had happened still seemed implausible.

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那个裁缝告诉我说不把我的裤子全都拆开的话，她无法改变它的尺寸。

The tailor told me that she couldn't change the size of my trousers without picking the whole thing apart.

youdao

你不想让它早一些变成现实吗？难道我无法说服你改变主意吗？

Don't you want them to be real sooner? Can't I persuade you to break away now?

youdao

It means understanding that certain things I cannot change and certain things I can and ought to change.

它意味着理解有些事,我无法改变，有些事我能而且应该去改变。

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