与此同时，我对你的爱并不取决于你是否能满足我对你的期望。

At the same time, my love for you is not dependent on whether you fulfill my expectations of you.

youdao

我亲爱的，亲爱的孩子，我对你的期望就是，你和她是在一个纯洁的，神圣的，法律的婚姻下结合。

My dear, dear boy, what I plan for you is to unite you with things themselves in a chaste, holy, and legal wedlock.

youdao

痛苦的时候我们比想象中的强大，我对你的期望是让你变成大家的希望，人人都需要有希望，即使失败过，还有什么更好的生活方式吗？

Keep it alive. We have to be greater than what we suffer. My wish for you is to become hope. People need that. And even if we fail, what better way is there to live?

youdao

If my advice is lost in the wind and you do not do as I wish, I do not recognize you as my son."

如果你辜负了我对你的期望,胆敢把我的话当耳边风,我就绝不认你这个儿子"

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