心理学家蒂莫西•威尔逊（Timothy Wilson）《我们是自己的陌生人》（Strangers to Ourselves）：现在你已经认识了自己身体中的那个陌生人，它也许在很多事情上都会为你做主，尽管你几乎从未察觉到它的存在。
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但是当我们想到那些陌生人，当我们被别人的看法和那些侮辱在别人眼中会怎样削弱自己的想法所缠绕时，我们的思想是不会演化的。
But our minds are not evolved to think about strangers, and we obsess, needlessly, about what people think of us and how these insults will diminish us in the eyes of others.
演讲后我对希拉里开玩笑说，我本不清楚自己的演讲有多糟，直到我们走出会场，她开始走向陌生人，介绍说我是她的第一任丈夫。
I kidded Hillary afterward that I wasn't sure just how badly I'd bombed until we were walking out of the arena and she started going up to total strangers and introducing me as her first husband.
直到现在我仍记得，电梯门完全关闭之前我们对视的那几秒钟，我是多么努力地保持微笑；电梯门关上，我再也控制不住自己的情绪，旁边的陌生人都尴尬得默不作声。
I remember the extraordinary effort it took to keep a smile on my face in those few seconds before he slid from view and I could let myself go amidst the embarrassed silence of strangers.
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