弄清楚内心深处的自己是谁——不要出于压力把自己变成一个得到外在的奖励而内心感到陌生和不真实的“自己”。

And, knowing who you are inside — independent of the pressures to adapt to a "self" that may bring external reward but also feels alien and inauthentic.

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你不是在发现自己，而是在重新创造自己。所以，不要去弄清你是谁，而要去确定你想成为谁。

You are not discovering youself, but creating yourself anew. Seek, therefore, not to find out Who You Are, seek to determine Who You Want to Be.

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如果你不照顾好自己的生理和心理健康的话，你是不可能弄清楚自己是谁以及什么会使自己幸福的。

Figuring out who you are and what makes you happy can't happen if you're not taking care of your physical and mental health.

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