我觉得今后的日子里快乐的生活是我对她的义务，我要尽可能地度过充实的一生，同时我一定要好好完成她未竟的事业。
I feel like it is my obligation to her to be as happy as I can be and be as productive with the rest of my life as can be and do as much good as she would've done if she could have.
想度过快乐和充实的一生，我们不但需要加强自己的自我控制能力，而且也需要提升自己的才智，知道在何时、何地运用自己的自我控制能力。
To live happy and productive lives, we need to develop not only our self-control strength, but also the wisdom to make good decisions about when and where to apply it.
但蔡说孩子的快乐是她的首要目标，她对成绩的极度关注完全是因为要帮助孩子找到真正让一生充实完整的“载体”，正如她自己经历的那样。
But Chua says her children's happiness is her primary goal; her intense focus on achievement is simply, she says, "the vehicle" to help them find, as she has, genuine fulfillment in a life's work.
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