我不知道你是否有机会看到它，但是Darcy在《五个做真实的自我的原因》的评论中提出了一个相当好的问题。

I don't know if you had a chance to see it, but Darcy left a really good question in the comments under 5 Reasons you Might as Well Be Authentic.

youdao

当我们做一些与真实自我相违的事情时，是不会感到愉悦的。

When you do things that are not genuine or a reflection of the real you, you will not be happy with yourself and will end up confused.

youdao

有一些人他们建议我不要请求他的宽恕或者发泄愤怒，如果我没有最初的直面他和“懂得出自我的胸怀” .这可能是真实的。我将永远不知道，因为那是我所做的，并且我不能返回重新以任何其他方式做。

There are those who have suggested that I could have never asked his forgiveness or let go of the anger if I had not first confronted him and "gotten it off my chest." This may be true.

youdao