即使你在这个人身上找不出任何缺点，你仍然需要认识到承诺的重要性，就是你在你的配偶、朋友，也可能是你的家人或是上帝面前所做的承诺。

Even if you can't find anything wrong with that person, you need to recognize the importance of the promise you made before your mate, your friends, probably before your family, and before God.

youdao

“我的主上帝是我的一个真正的朋友，”她说。“噢，上帝，我把我的生命放进你的手中。”

‘The Lord my God is my one true friend,’she said.‘I give my life,oh God,into your hands.’

youdao

你母亲，上帝保佑她，是我唯一的朋友。

Your mother, bless her heart, is the only friend I have.

youdao

And she described it as, think of what it's like to have a really great conversation with a friend that you wish would never end, except God's this infinitely rich friend and so the conversation ends up seeming desirable forever.

她的描述是，想象一次精彩的促膝长谈,和某个朋友，你希望它永远不会结束，上帝是位极渊博的朋友,长谈似乎充满无限魅力。

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