When you quarrel with a close friend, talk about the main dish, don't quibble over the appetizers.

当你和亲近的朋友吵架的时候，试着就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻、烂谷子的事。

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When you quarrel with a close friend, talk about the chief tray, don't quibble over the appetizers.

当你和你亲近的人吵嘴的时候，试著就事论事，不要扯出那些陈芝麻、烂谷子的事。

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When you quarrel with a close friend , take about the main dish , don't quibble over the appetizers;

与好朋友争吵时，就要就事论事，不要在小事上纠缠不休；

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