Just last week a friend from the speakers club I go to came up to me and said, "I love your website, but how do you do it?"

就在上周，在演讲者俱乐部，一位朋友走过来对我说：“我喜欢你的网站，但是你是怎么做出来的？”

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But Dad, do you know that there is actually a generation gap between us? Increasingly, I feel that you do not understand me and the way that you love me is not the way that I really want.

我知道你做什么都是为我好，不过爸爸，你知道吗，你是否有察觉我们之间有代沟，你越来越不了解我，你爱我的方式也不是我所需要的。

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That's why when they ask a man to do them a big favour, it is usually prefaced by: "How much do you love me?

这就是为什么当他们想让男性做些什么的时候，总是在前面加上一句“你有多爱我？”

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You can set me any task, I'll do anything you ask if you'll only love me still.

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But it was Hatfield's one line, "'Cause you don't love me like you used to do" in "You've Lost that Lovin' Feelin'" which still sends chills up my spine when I hear it.

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You love me but I do not matter.

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