In other words, the disputants would agree with each other, "Okay, we obviously aren't going to settle this conflict on our own."

换句话说，争议双方会相互达成一致：“好，我们没法自己解决这场冲突。”

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China undertook formally to settle its territorial disputes with ASEAN members not by force but through collective mechanisms for conflict resolution.

中国正式承诺，要通过集体机制而不是武力来解决与东盟国家的边境争端。

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Nations must not settle their differences by armed conflict.

各国不应当用武装冲突来解决分歧。

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However,the American Senate voted to try to settle the conflict peacefully.

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The US-drafted resolution backs an African Union roadmap which aims to settle the conflict and bring the two countries back to the negotiating table.

BBC: UN passes resolution threatening sanctions on Sudans

Beijing is understood to have told both Islamabad and New Delhi to settle the Kargil conflict peacefully.

CNN: THE DANGER OF ESCALATION

In engaging himself again in trying to settle the often intractable conflict, Mr. Bush must address the opposing demands of Arab leaders and of his own political base, which includes evangelical Christians and politically conservative Jews.

CNN: Bush's goal: Balancing a host of opposing forces