You're not being tougher than her by charismatically surviving a bee sting; you're just not feeling it at her intensity.

你可能没有她那么容易有超凡的能力去躲过蜜蜂的叮咬：你只是不能感受那些如她一般的细致。

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Cannavale charismatically portrays flashy, popular leading man Charlie Castle, who feels ensnared by his success as a cartoonish action-adventure performer.

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Daniels has little name recognition nationally and he is charismatically challenged.

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