One final thing to remember: it's good to show sympathy and regret for the situation, but don't pretend you know how they feel, warns Leila Bulling Towne, a San Francisco executive coach.

一位旧金山的高管教练Leila Bulling Towne提醒道，还有一点要记住的是：要表现出同情和惋惜之情，不要假装自己知道他们是怎么想的。

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I do not tell you this to gain your sympathy but to impress upon you my first important point -- it is not just Hollywood child stars that have suffered from a nonexistent childhood.

我说这些并不是要博得大家的同情，只是想让大家牢记一点——这种失去童年的痛苦不仅仅属于好莱坞的童星。

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When you see their clothing and where and how they live, you can't help but have sympathy.

虽然这样，但当你看到他们的破旧衣服和住所时，你会想如何的帮助他们。

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But do you have any sympathy for the position of the Haitian government, being concerned that there are people taking children out of the country?

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But now you see a real sense of national unity and sympathy.

NEWYORKER: The Olympian

The couple are a talented Everyman and Everywoman seen with affection and sympathy, but the movie suggests that relationships work only when you help the other person to act selfishly.

NEWYORKER: Going the Distance