She left her mother lying for five days. On the sixth day, she had no way out and bury her mother in her own head. So she got her crest, which is popularly said to be her mother's grave-hillock.

就停丧五天，到了第六天，她仍一筹莫展，就将母亲葬在自己的头上，因此，她就得到了冠毛，大家都说这是她母亲的坟山。

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She cannot be left on her on own.

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Therefore my mother was often misunderstood, pushed aside, ignored, and left to be on her own.

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Her oncologist suggested she rest and try to heal on her own, but "it left me thinking there has to be a better way, " Dr. Silver says.

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