And if we have the strength to be honest, then what we find there staring back at us is our own reflection, bearing witness to the duality of life.

如果我们强大到可以诚实以对，我们就会发现，我们如芒在背的正是我们自己那不得不见证人生两重性的倒影。

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Put aside the whole story of being wronged and victimized, then have an honest, heartfelt conversation with yourself asking what you really want your life to be about.

把那些被冤枉和成为受害者的故事放一边，然后和自己有一个诚实的，真诚的对话，问一下你自己在生命中你最想要的是什么？

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You have to be clear and honest with yourself about what you want out of life.

你必须正视自己，并清晰的知道自己在生活之外想要什么。

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You have to be honest with yourself because the only person you need to control in your life is you.

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