For example, if you have a communication issue with one person or a group of people, step away from the blame game and ask yourself, 'How can I be better?'

比如，如果你同一个人或一群人存在沟通问题，不要怨天尤人，而是要问问自己：我怎样能做得更好？

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Unwilling gto give in, the poor man glared and retorted: "How can you blame me? I am not from a poor family. I am the grandson of a prime minister, too."

那人不服气，翻翻白眼说：“你怎么能怪我，我并不是穷人出身，我也是宰相的孙子呢！”

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