你要把你对他的期望非常具体地告诉他——认真做完家务的奖励和消极反抗的后果。
Be very specific about what's expected of him - what the rewards will be for following through with his chores and what the consequences will be when he ACTS out in passive aggressive ways.
因为他观察到没有讨论和商量的余地,于是他选择极不情愿地接受任务,然后以这种消极的方式表示反抗。
Because his perception is that there is no room for discussion or negotiation, he reluctantly agrees to the task but then ACTS out in passive aggressive ways.
拖拉是消极的反抗。
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