如果你真想得到他们的帮助，你得与他们达成一致意见。
You have to build a consensus with them if you really want to get their help.
当两个人急于达成一致意见时，他们可能会无意识地采取相同的姿势，好像在模仿对方。
When two people are keen to agree with each other, they would likely, though unconsciously, adopt the same posture as if in imitation of each other.
“反依赖者”，他们通常对所有言论都不同意，尤其是当言论来自主席或通过集团达成一致意见时。
There are the "counter-dependents", those who usually disagree with everything that is said, particularly if it comes from the chairman or through consensus from the group.
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