菲舍认为，这表示受访者们正在从他们过去的恋爱经历中吸取教训，评估他们的得与失，并且最终知道，如何处理这种情况。
This suggests participants were learning from their past romantic experience, evaluating their gains and losses and figuring out how to deal with the situation, Fisher said.
他们不知道在放弃一些东西的同时，你也会获得一些东西，所以，我们要学会衡量得与失。
They do not know to give up something in the meantime, you will get something, so we must learn how to measure gains and losses.
很多人都没有思考过得与失的真正含义，莽撞冲动的做出选择，而致使他们在最后后悔万分。
Thinking a lot of people did not loss of life and the true meaning of rash impulse to make a choice, and led to their great regret at the last.
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