算了吧！不要斤斤计较。如你所知，他最近手头紧。

Forget it! Don't strain at a gnat. As you know, he is hard up these days.

youdao

因此我经常会劝他们以退为进，不要斤斤计较，有时候其实吃亏就是占便宜，先哲曾经告诫我们“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”。

So I often advise them to retreat, do not focus, and sometimes actually lose that advantage, sages have warned us to "tolerate temporary calm the broader picture."

youdao

放松一下自己，你需要的可不仅仅是一个前途光明的事业，你需要的是真正让你的生活有价值和意义的一切，不要斤斤计较一些琐碎的问题，也不要过于计较财政上的影响。

You need more than a great career. You need enough of what truly makes your life worth living, however frivolous and financially impractical that turns out to be.

youdao