When you take the Holmes-Rahe test you must remember that the score does not reflect how you deal with stress — it only shows how much you have to deal with.

你参加霍姆斯-拉赫测试时，你必须记住，分数并不能反映你如何处理压力的办法——它只是表明你要处理多少压力。

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In fact, according to the Holmes and Rahe stress scale, divorce ranks as one of the most stressful events that can occur during one's life, second only to the death of a spouse.

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