你和他们说得越多，他们在给你意见时就会觉得越舒服。
The more you talk to them, the more comfortable they will feel when they give you their opinions.
当你和你的父母交谈时，使用此信息来改善你和他们的关系。
Use this information when you talk to your parents to improve your relationship with them.
但如果你和他们竞争，他们肯定会打败你。
Think what you like about that entrepreneur's priorities in life, but don't doubt that they'll enjoy crushing you if you're competing against them.
别灰心，你还有很多机会改善你和他们的关系的。
Keep your chin up and you still have a profusion of chances for you to improve your relationships with them.
你和他们的关系同样需要用感激和认可来维护和给它加油。
Those relationships need care and fuel as well, through appreciation and acknowledgment.
不要老是想你和班上其他同学的肤，就记住你和他们一样的聪明。
Forget that you are different in complexion from the other students in your class. Just remember you are as clever as them.
没有必要一定要把它成为约会，只是你和他们定期在一起做一些事的规定时间。
You don’t have to call it a date, but just schedule time with them on a regular basis to do something together.
你要教育大众，不仅是说明你的存在，而且要告诉他们你和他们一样。
You want to educate the general population, not only to your presence, but also to the fact that you are just like them.
“如果你和他们谈论假期，他们应该总是能想办法把话题引回到生意上来，”他说。
"If you talk to them about vacations, they must always find a way to bring the conversation back to the business," he says.
你的关心，你对他人的道德情感，取决于你和他们拥有多少，相同的基因。
Your caring, your moral feelings towards other creatures to the extent of the proportion of genes that you share with them.
配偶，孩子，最好的朋友，你和他们有足够牢固的关系让你可以对他们说不。
Spouse, kids, best friends. You've got a solid enough relationship that no is going to be OK.
如果你和他们分享你的目标并让他们追踪你的进程，那么你将得到额外的动力。
You will get extra motivation if you share your goal with these people and ask them to keep track of your progress.
有时候，你对生活的看法是什么无关紧要，因为别人会把你和他们一起拖下去。
Sometimes it doesn't matter what your outlook on life is, because other people drag you down with them.
假定你和他们有共同的精神追求，他们对你来说就是完整意义上的精神的团体。
Assuming you share with them a common spiritual ideal, they will be for you the spiritual community in the full sense.
你和他们做朋友，拉他们加入“邻里互助计划”，甚至还和他们做了几笔很不错的交易。
You befriended them, drew them into the neighbourhood-watch scheme and even made some nice trades.
因此，如果你和他们之间没有任何关系，那么你不过就是一个陌生人提交了一份商业计划书。
Thus, if you have no relationship with them, you are a mere business plan from a stranger.
同很多人一样，一些同事和同学可能不知道该如何表达，但却尝试着保护你和他们自己的感受。
Like so many others, fellow employees and students don't know what to say and are trying to protect your feelings and their own.
哦。丽莎，你一向有贵族血统，而你又不想让别人以为你和他们有什么不同，所以隐瞒了这个事实。
Oh Lisa come on, you have always been blue blood, the fact that you don't want people to know it is a different thing.
如果你的信众不相信你和他们切身问题相关，他们就不会是好听众，并且不会成为你的教会里长时间的信徒。
If your members do not believe that you are in touch with their lives and problems, they will not be good listeners and may not be members of your church for long.
但是如果你和他们说要用一个食谱而非药物来阻止感染或治疗癌症，大多数都会明显地表示担心，而这在很多情况下是很正常的。
But talk to them about a diet instead of drugs to stop an infection or treat a tumor and most would be visibly alarmed, and in many cases, they would have good reason to be.
“让身体倾向与你谈话的人”：与协作者更近距离地接触，这会增强你和他们的参与感，并让你离电脑更远，从而使你不再依赖它。
Lean forward towards the person talking ": closer proximity to your collaborator increases your engagement with them, and distancing yourself from your computer decreases your attachment to it."
就像狗主人和他们的宠物一样，你几乎可以看到一个或另一个，然后配对。
Like dog owners and their pets, you can almost look at one or the other, and match the pair.
你的医生能够帮你很大的忙，你应该把此事当作紧急情况和他们谈谈。
Your doctors can help a great deal and you need to talk about it with them as a matter of urgency.
如果你不犹豫和他们一起出去，那就与他们一起做事，并让自己享受和他们在一起的每一刻。
If you do not hesitate to go out with them, do things with them and allow yourself to enjoy every moment being with them.
改变人们想法的方法是和他们成为朋友，让他们融入你的部落，把他们带入你的圈子。
The way to change people's minds is to become friends with them, to integrate them into your tribe, to bring them into your circle.
你每天都和他们一起工作，你依赖他们，就像他们依赖你一样。
You work with them every day, and you depend on them just as they depend on you.
你每天都和他们一起工作，你依赖他们，就像他们依赖你一样。
You work with them every day, and you depend on them just as they depend on you.
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