We can distance ourselves from our subjective wants and needs and likes and dislikes, and we can coexist with it in a happy and constructive way.

我们可以控制住我们的主观想法和需求,喜欢和不喜欢这类的想法都浮云了，我们甚至还能与自己的主观感受和谐共处。

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