You choose to do things and by dint of your choices, some choices become more learned than others.
你自主选择要做的事情,根据你选择的结果,某些选择会变得更容易被采纳。
and you feel like you've made a lot of choices in where to go with you and your friend.
你觉得,以往决定跟你的朋友去哪玩的时候你已经出了很多主意。
So it's probably not as final line as you might think, at least in my experience and in what I think is the best in government is make your policy choices first and then work out the politics.
所以可能并没有,你说的底线至少在我的经历中没有,我认为对政府最有益的是,先选择好政策,然后再谈政治。
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