在自己和他人看来，他似乎是国务卿的最佳人选，但是他始终没有成功；
To himself and to others he seemed a natural for secretary of state, but never made it;
与其紧盯着某些关系的代价，不如聚焦在你在自己和他人身上都学到了什么。
So rather than concentrate on the "cost" of certain relationships, focus on what you're learning about yourself and others.
这种把自己的快乐和他人的快乐联系起来的想法在一种非洲语言中被称为ubuntu。
This idea of connecting your happiness to the happiness of others is described as a ubuntu in an African language.
我们在和他人接触时有时会对自己的个人信息有所保留，这不是欺骗，只是说这跟他们没有关系。
We may choose to keep personal information from other people, not to be deceptive but simply because it's none of their business.
在贫困中我们可以体会到我们自己和他人的缺点，有限性，而且需要帮助。
Poverty is where we experience our own and other people's weakness, limitations, and need for support.
我们每个人都有自己的个性，没有哪个人和他人完全一样。我们的关系建立在人与人之间的互动之上。
We all have personalities, and no one is exactly like another. Our relationships and memories are built on our interaction with other people.
在我们这个社会有三种形式的影响力你必须学会才能充分发挥自己的潜力：他人的努力，他人的知识和他人的金钱。
There are three forms of leverage you must develop to fulfill your full potential in our society: other people's efforts, other people's knowledge, and other people's money.
把自己和他人进行比较是有问题的，因为在不同时间，每个人的发育都不同。
But it's not a good idea. Comparing ourselves with others is problematic because everyone develops differently and at different times.
管理者对其他人怀有自己的看法没什么不对——他人的谈吐、穿着相貌和他们在组织中的名声——而这会给交流造成障碍。
It’s natural for managers to allow their opinions about others—the way they speak, look, or dress, or their reputation in the organization—to create biases that get in the way of communication.
这意味着他在保全他自己和他家人的安全，毁掉其他人的家庭。
It means he is keeping himself and his family safe and he is destroying the families of other people.
屋子里只有我和他的女婿在，其他人都在自己各自的房间内等候我的通知，谁也没有睡觉。
Only myself and John's son-in-law were in the house. The rest of the family kept their vigil at their own houses, waiting for my call.
钱在培养和他人的紧密关系或者寻找方式挑战自己中是必不可少的吗？
Is money essential for developing strong ties to other people or finding ways to challenge yourself?
要有勇气找到自己和他人的因素，彼此做到诚实坦诚相待这一点在恋爱关系中非常重要。
Find the nerve, find the respect for yourself and the other person and just lay it out there and more importantly, just be honest.
关心他人的同时，你也在关心自己，表明自己有价值能够为社会和他人做贡献。
By caring for others, you can also care for yourself by showing you have something of value to contribute to your world and the people in it.
在和人交谈的时候，你会为了让形容更加有趣并让自己和他人更加兴奋而加入一些调味料。
When talking with others, you add something extra to the conversation that makes your world seem more interesting and exciting to them and to you.
我在改变博客中的上一篇帖子提到让你的快乐远离他人，如果你的快乐取决于他人，那么你只会让自己和他人更加的不快乐。
In my last post on the Change Blog, I talked about disconnecting your happiness from others - how when you depend on others for your happiness you only make yourself (and others) more unhappy.
这是人类的本性；我们在一些小事上给自己和他人树立一座高山。
So it goes with humankind; we make mountains out of molehills for ourselves and for each other.
在中国文化中，人们想要挽回面子的两个自己和他人，所以他们不会直接表达自己的想法。
In Chinese culture, people want to save face of both themselves and others, so they would not express their ideas directly.
这些量表测验的是哪些人相信自我和他人的关系，特别是他们在何种程度上把自己看成区别于他人的或与他人联系的人。
The scales measured what people believe about the relationship between the self and others and, especially, the degree to which they see themselves as separate from others or as connected with others.
在我自己和他人的生活中，我发现我们并不看好自己，或不全心去爱自己。
I have found in my own life and in others' lives that we do not think well of ourselves or love ourselves completely.
但是，在约8岁时，孩子通常变得令人企羡地乐观，令人高兴地自信，并且信任自己和他人。
Around the age of 8, however, children typically become enviably optimistic and delightfully confident and trusting of both themselves and others.
游船在航行中，游客不得随意走动，严禁酗酒、打闹，以免危及自己和他人的安全。
When the ship is in sailing, visitors can't get about at will. Excessive drinking, fighting and quarreling are forbidden.
为了自己和他人，在语言培训各种场合都要安全行事。
Act safely in all situations for your own sake and that of others.
美国美孚国际石油集团的承诺人们在工作场所以及延伸到我们运营所在的社区，没有什么比保护自己和他人免受伤害更为重要的。
American mobiloil group's commitment to people starts in the workplace and extends into the communities where we operate. Nothing is more important than protecting ourselves and others from harm.
在作者看来，为自己的观点和他人不同而战是愚蠢的，但是否认哲学的力量更是愚蠢至极。
It is foolish to fight for people's disagreement in their theory of the universe, but it is even more to think that one's philosophy does not matter.
粉红色则多指金星在情感和精神层面的作用，尤指对自己和他人的爱。
Pink is more related to the emotional and spiritual aspects of Venus; specifically the emotional love of one's self and others.
策略师詹姆斯·蒙蒂尔在最近给客户的一份便函中提到：“在使自己和他人快乐这方面，很多人都过高地估计了金钱的重要性。”
A vast array of individuals seriously overrate the importance of money in making themselves, and others, happy, said strategist James Montier in a recent memo to clients.
策略师詹姆斯·蒙蒂尔在最近给客户的一份便函中提到：“在使自己和他人快乐这方面，很多人都过高地估计了金钱的重要性。”
A vast array of individuals seriously overrate the importance of money in making themselves, and others, happy, said strategist James Montier in a recent memo to clients.
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