第四步：接受你不能控制别人的想法
你不能控制别人怎么说或怎么想。
你不能控制别人，但你能控制自己。
You cannot take control of others, but you can control yourself.
你不能控制别人，但你可以掌握自己。
You cannot control others, but you are the master of yourself.
事实上不管怎样这都是一种幻觉——你不能控制别人的想法。
The truth is that it's all an illusion anyway – you cannot control what other people think.
虽然你不能控制别人的消极行为，但是你可以控制自己参与其中多久。
While you can't control someone's negative behavior, you can control how long you participate in it.
正因为不想再控制别人，所以你会感觉如释重负，但还不能完全觉得平和自由。
As you no longer want to control people, you feel a huge relief but you still don't feel entirely peaceful and free.
你若不能学会自己控制并管理自己， 那么就只能由别人来控制并管理你。
If you can't control and manage youself, you'll have yourself controled and managed by others.
当然单词掌握的越多越好，因为即使你可以控制自己使用的单词量，但你却不能控制别人的单词量。
The more you know the better because even though you can control the words you use, you can't control the other person.
当然单词掌握的越多越好，因为即使你可以控制自己使用的单词量，但你却不能控制别人的单词量。
The more you know the better because even though you can control the words you use, you can't control the other person.
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