积极者通过积极地活动或职业为他人创造更好地生活条件，他们给自己的生活制定目标，让自己的失去变得有意义。
Activists create meaning from their loss by contributing to the quality of life of others through activities or careers that give them a purpose in life.
换句话说，他在这里指的是这些人是自己生活的创作者；他们创造自己的生活而不是受他人掌控。
In other words, what he's talking about here is that these people are scribes in their lives; they create their own lives as oppose to those that are being prescribed by others.
但是现代的父母都希望尽其所能地为自己的孩子创造所有的有利条件，让他们掌握所有的生活技能，这的确不是坏事，在我们这个充满竞争和梦想的现代社会中，父母的这种观念是难以改变的。
But modern parents want to give their kids all the advantages and life skills that they can, not a bad thing, surely, and unlikely to change in our competitive, aspirational modern world.
下一步是去创造有作业和娱乐活动的日常生活，然后让他们说出自己的痛苦。
The next is to create routine, with schoolwork and play, and then allow them to talk about their pain.
当你了解他们所做的事情时，你可能会把这些带到自己的生活里，也许还会创造出自己的成功故事。
As you gain knowledge about the things they do, you might be able to incorporate them into your life and, perhaps, create your own success story.
人格相当于在你至多只是生活着其他从未在他们自己化身期间获得这样一个状态的人的陈旧梦想时，你处于相信你是大师创造者之中。
EGO is equivalent in believing one to be the MASTER CREATOR when you are at best living the worn out dream of another that never achieved such a state in their own incarnation.
INFP小时候经常创造他们自己的幻想世界，并且生活在其中。
INFP children often create their own fantasy world and live very much within it.
为了让我们生活得更好，学习得更好，他们竭尽所能得为我们创造最好的条件，却忽略了自己的需要。
In order to make our lives better, learn better, they do everything they can to create the best conditions for us, but ignore their own needs.
他对自己的城市、企业、足球、以及快乐充满了激情，会尽一切可能创造奇迹，同时给其他人机会，使他们可以以同样的信念生活。
He is passionate about his city, his business, his football, his happiness and will do all it takes to move mountains while giving others the chance to live by the same conviction.
也许他们只是肤浅地把钱花在大家都看得见的地方，可是你是用钱创造自己现在和未来的理想生活。
They might be making the shallow choice to spend their money on what people can see, while you are spending your money on the life you want to live, both today and tomorrow.
而有意思的是，他们还不知道自己的行为在和自己的心愿对着干。你们拥有所有需要的工具来创造你们理想中的生活，你们却选择不用。
Interestingly, this is not because they do not know how. Humans have been given all the tools with which to create the life of their highest dreams. They simply choose not to use them.
社会参与者如何创造他们自己，以及他们生活的情境？
How do social actors create themselves and the circumstances of their lives?
校园生活意味着年轻人可以创造自己的世界，或把世界变成自己的，他们有自由、有条件去加以实现。
Campus life means a life in which young people can create their own world - or make the world their own. They have the freedom and the facilities to do so.
辩论者也提到他们用以帮助自己平衡个人与职业生活的创造性的策略。
The panelists also mention some of the very creative strategies that they have used to help them balance their personal and professional lives.
孩子们都已离开我出去闯荡世界，去创造他们自己的多彩生活。
对于那些诗人，作家等等来说，他们仍将会在追寻刺激的生活中不断地发挥自己创造性的灵感。
For those poet, writer, etc., who will still searching for an exciting life ceaselessly in play your own creative inspiration.
读者能够把这些情景和自己每天的生活联系起来，这些情景从而就会 “引发”他们的想象力和创造力。
The readers will be able to relate situations to their everyday lives and consequently these situations will 'spark' their imagination and creativity.
这个世界里充满了象第一个回应所说的，认为自己是正直的，去侮辱上帝，认为宇宙的创造者应该乖乖地让他们的生活一帆风顺。
The world is full of those who rail against God in their self-righteousness and presume that the creator of the universe is obliged to make their life smooth.
去创造出自己的生活，然后走出来享受生活吧。人就像茶叶袋，只有放到热水中，你才能知道他们有多强大。
Create your own life and then go out and live it. "People are like tea bags - you have to put them in hot water before you know how strong they are."
别去迫使自己挤进别人的生活里，占有一席。如果他们珍惜你，他们会主动创造给你。
Never force yourself to have a space in anyone's life because if they really know your worth, they'll surely create one for you.
别去迫使自己挤进别人的生活里，占有一席。如果他们珍惜你，他们会主动创造给你。
Never force yourself to have a space in anyone's life because if they really know your worth, they'll surely create one for you.
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